Hostess Gifts

Hostess gifts are what you hand over at the door that the host doesn't have to do anything about: no vase, no fridge space, no plan for the evening.

On the shelf now: Mistral's bar soap, Lineage candles and room sprays, Tatine candles, HomArt matches, In the Curious Kitchen's Strawberry Jalapeño Jam, Zodax's Bandol glassware and Kalastyle Soap Co.'s cedar hand salve. For a host who pours, add Viski's gold weighted barspoon.

Our rule for this shelf is that the host should be able to say thank you and keep talking. Anything that needs finding a place for before dinner stays on the shelf, and we say no to a lot of pretty things for that reason.

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How to Choose Hostess Gifts That Don't Create Work

A good hostess gift is the one the host can accept with one hand while holding a dish with the other. That narrows the field quickly, and it is how we sort everything below.

Bring something that works on its own

Flowers need a vase and a decision. A bottle needs a corkscrew and a mood. A hostess gift that works on its own, like a bar of Mistral soap, a box of HomArt matches or a jar of In the Curious Kitchen's Strawberry Jalapeño Jam, can go straight into a drawer or onto a counter. Mistral's soap comes in four scents, Black Amber, Bourbon Vanilla, Cedarwood Marine and Salted Gin.

Present it like you meant it

The correction we make most often is that people spend on the gift and then hand it over loose. Hostess gifts read better in a bag, and a bag also means the host can carry it to the kitchen without unwrapping anything. Three things rarely go wrong: soap, a candle with matches, or something edible with a lid. All three can sit on a counter until the party ends, and none of them asks the host for anything. Cheers Darling's art deco wine gift bag from The Twentieth is $6 and turns a bottle into a gift, and we send everything out in High St. tissue and a bag with cord handles anyway. If you'd like to wrap something at home, we sell select wrapping paper.

Hostess Gift Ideas by Type and Occasion

Dinner party hostess gifts, holiday host gifts and thank-you gifts all follow the same logic. Here is how we split them.

Candles, matches and soap

Lineage's candles come in a range of scents including Boot Jack, Pine Camp, Wildwood and Palo Santo, and its room sprays share names like Boot Jack, Pine Camp and Wildwood, so one scent can come as a candle for the host and a spray for the guest bathroom. Tatine and Mistral fill the slot above them for a host you want to impress a little. Add HomArt matches, which come in illustrated designs from rare snakes to butterfly specimens, and the candle is ready to light. Scent is personal, so if you don't know the host well, Palo Santo or Wildwood is safer than something sweet.

Glasses, bar pieces and a bar cart touch

Zodax's Bandol glassware comes in six shapes, so a pair of coupes or two everything glasses can go into one bag for a host who pours. For a host with a bar cart, Viski's gold weighted barspoon and Barfly's muddler are small pieces that get used every weekend. Barware has the rest of the bar cart.

Pantry gifts and small treats

In the Curious Kitchen's Strawberry Jalapeño Jam is the gift for a host with a cheese board. Kalastyle Soap Co.'s Wood Aromatics Cedar Wood Hand Salve is the gift for the host who just spent four hours in the kitchen. These are small on purpose. The point of hostess gifts is gratitude, not an inventory. If the host has a pantry full of jars already, soap is the safer yes, because there is always another sink.

Closing gifts and moving-in thank-yous

Closing gifts and relocation thank-yous follow the same rule, only the host is a realtor or a neighbor. A set of Cincinnati Map Slate Coasters from Blue Ridge Mountain Gifts is a local, useful gift for someone who helped you find the house, and a candle from Candles + Scents covers everyone else. For a new home, the housewarming gift guide lists what we would bring.

Hostess Gifts in Cincinnati

We are a lifestyle store in Over-the-Rhine, 17,000 square feet at 1401 Reading Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45202. Hostess gifts are easier to choose with the object in your hand, so come by the floor. Open every day but Tuesday: 10am to 6pm, Sunday 11am to 4pm. CityBeat named us Best Interior Designer in 2024, and the Design Studio team, who spend their days helping people furnish whole rooms, will gladly help with a host gift. Rosemary's is inside High St., on the second floor, and keeps the same hours. For a lower number, the gifts under $50 page sorts by price.

Pickup, shipping and presentation

Free shipping on orders over $150; domestic standard shipping is otherwise $15. In-stock online orders are usually ready for pickup in about two hours. We don't offer traditional gift wrap. Purchases go out in High St. branded tissue and premium bags with cord handles and a gold-foil logo.

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Hostess Gifts in Cincinnati: Questions We Get Asked on the Floor

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What are good hostess gifts?

Good hostess gifts are small, useful and need nothing from the host. Soap, a candle with matches, a jar of jam, a pair of glasses or a bar tool all qualify. We lean toward things the host can put away in one move, such as Mistral soap or In the Curious Kitchen's Strawberry Jalapeño Jam.

Do I need to bring a hostess gift to a dinner party?

You don't need to, but bringing one is a kind gesture and is usually appreciated. Keep it small and ready to use, and don't expect the host to open or serve it that night. A candle, a bar of soap or a jar of jam does the job.

What should I bring a hostess besides wine?

Bring something consumable that doesn't need a vase or a plan, like a Lineage candle with HomArt matches, Mistral bar soap or Kalastyle Soap Co.'s hand salve. If you do bring wine, put it in a bag. Cheers Darling's art deco wine gift bag is $6.

How much should I spend on a hostess gift?

There is no rule we would stand behind, so spend what feels right for the host and the occasion. HomArt matches start at $4.50, and the gifts under $50 page sorts by price if you want a ceiling.

What are good closing gifts for a realtor?

Closing gifts work best when they're local and useful. Cincinnati Map Slate Coasters or a candle are easy yeses, and neither one needs a note explaining it. Add a card and you're done.

What is the difference between hostess gifts and housewarming gifts?

Hostess gifts are for an evening, like a dinner, party or holiday meal, and they should need nothing from the host. Housewarming gifts are for a new home and can be bigger or more lasting, such as a pot or glassware. If you're unsure, a candle works for both.

Where can I buy hostess gifts in Cincinnati?

High St. is a lifestyle store at 1401 Reading Rd in Over-the-Rhine, with candles, soap, glassware and pantry gifts on the floor. We're open every day but Tuesday, 10am to 6pm, Sunday 11am to 4pm. In-stock online orders are usually ready for pickup in about two hours.

Do you offer gift wrapping?

We don't offer traditional gift wrap. Purchases go out in High St. branded tissue and premium bags with cord handles and a gold-foil logo, and we sell select wrapping paper for anyone who wants to wrap at home.

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